Why do we always fall in love with villains?

Tom or Jerry? Sylvester or Tweety? Clarke or Lex? Well, my answers are Tom, Sylvester and of course Lex. Many people will agree with my answers.. Originally these cartoons were introduced to teach children that when you do bad, something bad will happen to you..and you should be good. They expected the good guy to win the hearts of kids,but the exact opposite happened,but why? Why people always fall in love with villains? Today I'm gonna tell you why..

Reason is simple.. It's coz they are like us. We are not perfect like the hero characters in dramas. We all have ups and downs. None of us are perfect and we share some of our qualities with those villains. That's why we love them. Villains are much closer to us than any of those super heroes. What's more important is why those villains became villains. Every villain has its own reasons  to be like that, and sometimes we just have to justify it.

In real world or in dramas, there's always a story behind a villain. Why he ended up like that, and Is he really a villain? We decide that someone is evil by listening to others,but maybe from his perspective, he might be a good guy and another one is the villain. The best example is when I watched the jewel in crown I thought that Dong Yi is the good one and Jung ok jung is the bad one. From her perspective, yeah.. she's good and her competitor is bad. Later, when I started watching Jung ok Jung live in love I understood that Ok jung had a reason to do everything she did, and she was not bad at all. It was Dong yi the villain in her story. And then I realized that there is no villain in the story. It's just the way we decide to see it. If we take sides then there will always be a villain. If we like Ok jung,then Dong Yi is the villain and vice versa.

One important lesson I learned from this is, we shouldn't believe that someone is evil just coz all the people say it. Villain might not be a villain at all, and he may have his own reasons for his actions. So before blaming someone for something,it's better to to get to know the person well and decide later..