Who is a rival?How to define a rival?In my opinion a rival is someone who is aiming for the same life goals as me.We all have rivals in our lives,at many places,school,college,work place or sometimes in love.Sometime we feel bad about ourselves coz we always loose.Maybe you are frustrated and disappointed about yourself.Don't be,here I am teaching you,How to beat your rival.It's good to have a rival always.Having a rival always get the best out of you.So if you don't have a rival then immediately you should find a one.Competition always invent new and better things.
I too had many rivals in school and in my living environment.For years I used different strategies to beat them.No matter how tough or difficult to beat your rival,those strategies will work for you too.
- Study your rival.Don't underestimate any rival.Examine his behaviour to understand him and his weak points. Understand what are his methods. Even by looking at him,you must be able to get the idea what is he up to.Don't get disappointed if your rival is thousand times stronger and better than you.You have something he doesn't have,a better rival.
- Don't be jealous at your rival.It will make your self esteem low.You should't make yourself bad comparing you to another person.Whatever happens I'm the best.You should always keep that in your head.
- Have a dream,and live in it.So every time you feed tired it will remind you that you have a lot more things to make your dream a reality.
- Have a backup plan always.I usually have 3 backups.So it prevents me from falling apart when my master plan is not working.
- There are two ways one can get the first place in anything.As an example,in an exam to become first you have to have maximum marks.You have two ways to do it.
2.If you can make others to score lower than you are.
I do not recommend the second one,but I wanted to tell you that such a thing also exist.
- Target something bigger.Your dream should be a big one.If your target is to touch the moon,you will end up at least touching clouds.Make plans to achieve your goal wisely and make a time frame,keep short term goals which will lead to your main target.Do your best to achieve the short term goals and gradually you will reach to your target.
- Do not tell what you have in your mind to anyone.Wise people listen more and talk less. When nobody knows your plans,your attack will cause more pain.
- If you loose once or twice to him,don't get disappointed. We.We are happy when we have a good time,but it do not last for a long time.Likewise bad times also do not last long.Keep this in your mind and when you fell stand again with more courage.Nobody can win forever and nobody can loose forever.
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